Have you ever walked into another parents house?

i have yes it was before i had my first though and i felt sorry for the child who had to live there, but i also understand being a parent is hard demeanding job the cleaning cant always be done. i do agree a house should be a clean hygienic place for children to grow up and shouldnt be dirty and unhygienic at any time, thers no excuse really as part of parenting and raising your children is giving them somewhere nice and clean to live and setting a good example. you dont need to go over the top but making sure toilets and kitchens are clean are the most important.